Bringing a Brave, Questioning Heart

“Isn’t it hard?” people ask me when they hear I’m non-monogamous. “It is,” I respond. “But not in the ways you’d expect.” The most common objection […]

Do It Well

I was 27 years old when I got my first tattoo. Before then, I had been in the camp of indecisive folks who couldn’t possibly imagine […]

Hanging Hope

It’s something I used to see every day: an unassuming, plain metal key with a blue rubber cover around it. It sits on a ring with […]

Look At My Food Bowl

“Wow!” “It’s the prettiest, shiniest foodbowl. And look how full it is!” This is what Daphne and I say to our cat regularly. And by regularly, […]